No Boyfriend; No Problem


ONE::A person who is skilled at manipulating ("playing") others, and especially at seducing others by pretending to care about them, when in reality they are only interested in sex.

TWO::A person who is sustaining supposedly exclusive relationships with multiple people simultaneously
THREE::A person who: 
(1) doesn't understand the meaning of relationship
(2) is in full reproductive mode 
(3) is very good at making others think they are into them (also very proficient at breaking said others hearts) 
(4) often "dates" several people at several schools (people are often unaware of each other) 
(5) is an asshole!
Definition provided by urbandictionary.com

So recently i've been involved in a situation where i have been called a "player" when really by the definition isn't me. I plead my case as follows.

One:: I have manipulated no one into doing anything. I dont "pretend" to care and for the people that know me know that im very outspoken and that i don't pretend to feel one way about something when i really feel another. I generally do care for people especially if i like [interested] in them then i should care on some level right? oh And "in reality when i really want sex."???!! LMAO im a virgin...enough said.
Two:: I have yet to have the "exclusive relationship" talk with anyone. Therefore; All's Fair In Love&&War
THREE:: 1] i fully understand the meaning of a relationship, but until i am in one i have no commitment to anyone but myself. 
2] Yes i want kids one day, but today is definitely not that day.
3] I dont have to pretend to be into anyone. Like i said before im very outspoken, either im feeln it or im not. you will be informed !
4] Even if these people im interested in are in different school or cities or whateveri have nothing to hide. They may unaware but i shouldnt have to tell someone that im talkn to other people. Until the conversation[agreement] is made that we arent going to talk to other people then they dont have to kno what i do when im not with them Now if they were ask then i wouldnt lie i'd tell the truth[i have nothing to hide]
5]i may be rude sometimes but im nvr and asshole.

So there u have it im not a player. Im young and single and im completely validated in everything i wanna do with whomever i wanna do it with.


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