So recently i've been involved in a situation where i have been called a "player" when really by the definition isn't me. I plead my case as follows.
One:: I have manipulated no one into doing anything. I dont "pretend" to care and for the people that know me know that im very outspoken and that i don't pretend to feel one way about something when i really feel another. I generally do care for people especially if i like [interested] in them then i should care on some level right? oh And "in reality when i really want sex."???!! LMAO im a virgin...enough said.
Two:: I have yet to have the "exclusive relationship" talk with anyone. Therefore; All's Fair In Love&&War
THREE:: 1] i fully understand the meaning of a relationship, but until i am in one i have no commitment to anyone but myself.
2] Yes i want kids one day, but today is definitely not that day.
3] I dont have to pretend to be into anyone. Like i said before im very outspoken, either im feeln it or im not. you will be informed !
4] Even if these people im interested in are in different school or cities or whateveri have nothing to hide. They may unaware but i shouldnt have to tell someone that im talkn to other people. Until the conversation[agreement] is made that we arent going to talk to other people then they dont have to kno what i do when im not with them Now if they were ask then i wouldnt lie i'd tell the truth[i have nothing to hide]
5]i may be rude sometimes but im nvr and asshole.
So there u have it im not a player. Im young and single and im completely validated in everything i wanna do with whomever i wanna do it with.